Parents aren't supposed to get old..are they?
I went on a family vacation/trip this past weekend to see relatives on my mother's side. We had a big family reunion in the Chicago area, complete with matching t-shirts, plenty of food, music, and out of town attendees. As I stood amongst my relatives, I was struck by one thing. I don't "feel" old. I know I'm getting older, and so are they, but I don't "feel" old. Should I? I'll be 41 this year and I don't feel like I'm aging at all. I looked at some of my relatives that are past the prime of their lives, and realized that the next time I may see some of them will be at a sad occasion, rather than a happy one. I looked at my parents, who retired this year at the ages of 61 and 62, and thought, "they'll never be old". But, they will. And it breaks my heart. We only have a limited number of years on this earth, and I can't imagine the world without them in it. I also had the opportunity to see the mother of ...